Outside the hospital |
Nate will come to love and hate this machine during his rehab |
Though my family often chides me for asking a lot of questions, today I think Nate at least would agree, that trait does have its merits. I had myriad questions of the surgeon but didn't barrage him. A mama wants to effectively advocate for her son. If you've ever been to the doctor or had surgery, you understand how important it can be to have another voice speaking on your behalf. In the short time he has been a patient at the hospital, I have run interference for my OS. When Nate was thirsty, I requested water, when he drank Sprite, I asked if he could have more. The medical staff have many patients, Aaron and I have one. It's not being a diva or a prima donna, I'm not a Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton, just a mama, if I can do something quicker or easier, than I want to assist.
Saw this in the waiting room - Rick Springfield on a talk show this morning... I think he's had some surgery too! :) |
When Nate's IV monitor was sounding "occlusion," I fetched someone to investigate. When he thought he might throw up, I inquired of a barfing receptacle. I'm sure Nate would have managed but not very comfortably because he's too weak to do much. Aaron has faithfully stayed by Nate's side even though there's really nothing for him to do here. I am proud of my boy for his sacrifice and love.
Aaron and I went apple picking with a friend yesterday - we are the two amigos! |
My OS has entered the subset of cadets who find themselves needing surgery during their 48 month sojourn at USMA. It's a unique subset of the Corps and if possible, I'd recommend finding another "club" to join! Seriously! Thanks for your prayers, concern and support, it means so much to us. Army Strong!
1 comment:
So awesome that you can be there for him! Hope he continues to get stronger and stronger.
My cadet was in the hospital in South Korea (in August) with tonsillitis so painful that they gave him morphine. I could not be there, of course, and it broke my heart AFTER he was released because he didn't tell us about the incident while it was happening (of course).
Patients definitely need advocates... great for Nate to have YOU!
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